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Psychology 041 - Lifespan Psychology

Chapter 6 – Emotional and Social Development in Infancy and Toddlerhood

Psychosocial Stages During Infancy and Toddlerhood

  • Erikson’s Stage
    • Basic trust vs. mistrust (first year)
      • Responsiveness
      • Sympathetic, loving balance of care
    • Autonomy vs. shame and doubt (second year)
      • Suitable guidance and reasonable choices
      • Reasonable expectations for impulse control

First Appearance of
Basic Emotions

  • Happiness
    • Smile: from birth
    • Social smile: 6–10 weeks
    • Laugh: 3–4 months
  • Anger and sadness
    • General distress: from birth
    • Anger: 4–6 months
    • Sadness: response to disrupted caregiver–infant communication
  • Fear
    • First fears: second half of first year
    • Stranger anxiety: most frequent expression of fear

Responding to Emotions of Others

  • Matching feeling tone of caregiver
  • Sensitivity to structure and timing of face-to-face interactions: 3–4 months
  • Social referencing: 8–10 months

Social Referencing

  • Reliance on a trusted person’s emotional reactions to appraise an uncertain situation
  • Used by caregivers to teach children how to react to everyday events

Self-Conscious Emotions

  • Appear between ages 1½ and 3 years:
    • Shame
    • Embarrassment
    • Guilt
    • Pride
    • Envy
  • Require
    • awareness of self as separate and unique
    • adult instruction in when to feel emotions

Emotional Self-Regulation

  • Adjusting one’s own state of emotional intensity
  • Requires effortful control
  • Improves over first year, with brain development
  • Caregivers
    • contribute to child’s self-regulation style
    • teach socially approved ways of expressing feelings

Thomas and Chess: Structure of Temperament

  • Easy: 40%
  • Difficult: 10%
  • Slow-to-warm-up: 15%
  • Unclassified: 35%

Rothbart: Structure of Temperament

  • Reactivity: quickness and intensity of
    • emotional arousal
    • attention
    • motor activity
  • Self-regulation: strategies that modify reactivity

Biological Basis of Inhibited Temperament

  • Neurobiological correlates of shyness and sociability:
    • heart rate
    • saliva concentration of cortisol
    • pupil dilation, blood pressure, skin surface temperature
    • Persistence of temperamental style is influenced by child-rearing practices

Stability of Temperament

  • Stability is
    • low in infancy and toddlerhood
    • moderate from preschool years on
  • Temperament develops with age, becoming more stable after age 3 years

Heredity and Environment in Temperament

  • Genetic influences
    • Responsible for about half of individual differences
    • Vary with trait and age of individuals studied
  • Environmental influences
    • Nutrition
    • Quality of caregiving
    • Cultural variations
    • Gender stereotyping

Goodness-of-Fit

  • Interaction between temperament and child-rearing style
  • Effective child rearing: good fit with child’s temperament
  • Role of cultural context

Bowlby’s Ethological Theory of Attachment

  • Preattachment
  •  Attachment-in-the-making phase
  • Clear-cut attachment phase
    • separation anxiety
  • Reciprocal relationship with caregiver

Measuring Attachment Security

  • Secure: 60%
  • Avoidant: 15%
  • Resistant: 10%
  • Disorganized/
    disoriented: 15%

Factors That Affect Attachment Security

  • Early availability of consistent caregiver
  • Quality of caregiving: parental sensitivity
  • Infant characteristics
  • Parents’ internal working models

Multiple Attachments

  • Fathers
  • Siblings
  • Grandparents
  • Professional caregivers

Role of Paternal Warmth

  • Often expressed through play
  • Promoted by
    • time spent in physical proximity to babies
    • intimacy and cooperation between parents

Siblings and Attachment

  • Majority of children have siblings
  • Arrival of new baby can be stressful for older siblings
  • Siblings typically develop rich emotional relationship
  • Certain temperamental traits (high emotional reactivity) increase likelihood of sibling conflict

Attachment and Later Development

  • Secure attachment is related to later cognitive, emotional, social competence
  • Continuity of caregiving promotes favorable development

Self-Development

  • Self-awareness
    • From birth
    • Aided by capacity for intermodal perception
  • Self-recognition
    • Emerges end of second year
    • Promoted by acting on environment and noting effects
  • Empathy
    • Ability to “feel with” another person
    • Aided by self-awareness

Categorical Self

  • Classifying self and others into social categories on basis of
    • age
    • physical characteristics
    • goodness vs. badness
  • Used to organize behavior, including gender-typed behavior

Self-Control

  • Effortful control is the capacity to
    • inhibit impulses
    • manage negative emotions
    • behave in socially acceptable ways
  • Depends on
    • awareness of self as separate, autonomous being
    • confidence in directing own actions
    • memory for caregiver’s directives

Compliance

  • Emerges between 12 and 18 months
  • Awareness of caregivers’ wishes and expectations
  • Ability to obey simple requests and commands
  • Leads to first consciencelike verbalizations
  • Delay of gratification: between ages 1½ and 3 years

Helping Toddlers Develop Compliance and Self-Control

  • Respond with sensitivity and support.
  • Give advance notice of change in activities.
  • Offer many prompts and reminders.
  • Reinforce self-controlled behavior.
  • Encourage sustained attention.
  • Support language development.
  • Increase rules gradually.